about two days ago i received a phone call from my younger sister..she was whining abt her best buddy’s behaviour towards her..when i listen to her,i suddenly remember that i oredi pass that kind of time,n i actually glad that i am what i am rite now n the way my mind works,proudly to say,i’m so glad i haf this positive minded n inherited some of my father’s way of thinking..my sister dont understand y her buddy treat her badly becoz of her friendship wif a boy (i dont deny the fact that she is my sister n perhaps u might think i’ll stand beside her,but i do know well her best buddy,happened to b 23 years old rite now n haf gone through all those kind of situation she’s having rite now)..i told her how she should response to that matter,n to b wise accepting incoming consequences becoz people always act like people do,usually the same behaviour..

the thing is,when we grew older,went to somewhere else,know people,we tend to change our way of thinking,attitude toward people n mayb gain sumthing whether it is bad or actually good to us..it also affected to people who we know years b4 which is in this case,friend is a suitable example..do people like frenz can accept us after the changes?not many do..i remember once,i’ve been reminded of my lacked of awareness towards befriended wif the opposite sex,become so much outspoken,too friendly n sometime too overexposed that i really exist!at that time,i was thinking,’for God sake!this is what i am,can u guys juz accept me?’..but no,not many people understand n i learnt that,world is not juz abt our thought,even how much positive u ar,it is abt understanding,respect n more courage standing wif what we belief..to b good to everyone (even for those who dont deserved it),accept people mistake,n let live..y this soud so hard?becoz we r dealing wif people,n we didnt always haf nice people everyday..y we haf to be treated by our most dislike ones?it is for us to leant to b patient,to understand better,make our mind broader n for us to thank to Him that we r not like that..

i’d come across to a short malay novel,very intelligence once i ever read..i really like when it comes to ’selalunya bila berkasih,kdg2 kita tak nampak keburukan kekasih kita,kita hanya nampak kebaikan dia shj,sbb itulah,bg org yg berkasih,mereka hanya ada musim bunga’..at 1st,i was thinking,how people in luv can b that stupid?when it really my turn to b on that situation,i became that kind of stupid people eheeh..but,becoz i remember that novel,i push myself to consider more,to b in the real world,n alhamdulillah..however,it became worst becoz it make me lurv him more,when he actually didnt feel the way i do..huhu..pity..

when u r postive,life is not bad at all actually..yes,it’s hard for others to accept some tahyul thing abt us,or perhaps to respect our principles,but always think,have u ever deleted sumbody from ur life list becoz of their weakness?u even didnt help they to overcome it?did u ever respect others for what they hold?or laugh to their ambitious mind?think..i remember one of my father’s piece of advice,‘kalau tak suka dgr kritikan org lain psl kita,jgn suka2 mengkritik org lain’..always be wise,it is what we should be,person who very clever wif life..

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